Weddings are respected around the world as a beautiful celebration of love. They are also appreciated as one of the most important days in a person's life.

In fact, a wedding day is rarely only important to the happy couple; it is important to all of the people who are involved.

Which is why if you are one of these people, it can feel important to get the words right when you’re wishing them a congratulations.

What to Write in a Wedding Card

Before we dive into our breakdown of wedding wishes by recipient, we’re going to cover the basics.

With any wedding card, we think that there a few essential things that should be included in every card:

• The couple's name: this one is fairly obvious, but is essential to include in your well wishes. A simple approach to this that always works well is to say “To Mr/Mrs and Mr/Mrs [Surname] to be…”
• Congratulations: This day is so important to the couple, especially as they tie the knot and celebrate their love. So you should always congratulate them on this!
• Thanks: So easily forgotten, but it’s good manners to simply thank them for including you in their big day!
• Your name: Again, an obvious essential. But don’t forget to sign your name(s)!

Also in addition to the above essentials, if you feel comfortable doing so, we recommend that you include a small note of what your gift was. This is something that is more beneficial to the new couple than you think, as they will get oodles of gifts and remembering who gave what can be tricky. It’s not bragging rights, it’s helpful!
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General Wedding Wishes

We’re kicking things off with general wedding wishes. They’re a great way to wish the happy couple congratulations on their big day:

Today’s the day! Congratulations to you both as you celebrate your love!

Here’s to forever together! Sending all our love as you celebrate yours!

One day down, forever to go! Happy wedding day!

Wishing you both a lifetime of love, laughter and happiness. Congratulations!

Happy wedding day! So glad we can be here to celebrate alongside you.

Grateful to be here alongside you both as you tie the knot.

May your marriage be filled with love and good fortune. Congratulations!

I hope your day is everything you dreamed it would be. Congratulations to you both!

Today is the beginning of the rest of your life! All of our love on this magical day.

It fills our hearts with joy to be celebrating this day with you both. Congratulations!
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Funny Wedding Wishes

If sentimental messages aren’t your thing, or it’s not the vibe between you and the happy couple, then a funny wedding wish could be the answer.

Thank you both for inviting me to the party of the year!

Today is going to be the happiest day of your life…so far!

Marriage is a huge commitment…to always putting down the toilet seat!

Congratulations on finding someone that you can annoy for the rest of your life!

I always knew you were madly in love. I just never thought that you were mad enough about love to get married.

Don’t come to us for marriage advice, we have no idea what we’re doing either.

So excited to eat good food and drink delicious drinks as you get married today!

All we can say is, finally!

Congratulations to you both on your big day! Oh, and a huge thanks for reminding me how much money I’ve saved by not having a wedding!

Enjoy today as a lifetime of suffering begins tomorrow! Kidding! Happy Wedding Day!

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Wedding Wishes for a New Family Member

If the wedding you’re attending is that of a family member, then by the end of the nuptials (whether you like it or not) you will have a new family member.

Which might not even feel like any sort of change if they’ve been in your life for a while by the time they actually say “I do!”, but it’s always nice to have something to say:

As of today, you are officially a member of our family! We couldn’t be happier!

Nothing brings me more joy than knowing that after today you are officially a [Surname]!

Today our family tree grows and another branch is added, and we couldn’t be happier!

Our hearts are full of love knowing you are officially a part of our family now!

It is so exciting to welcome another [sister/brother/aunt etc] into our family!

I knew as soon as we met you that one day you would be a member of our family, and today is finally the day! Congratulations to you both!

Not only do we get to celebrate this beautiful day with you both, but we also gain a new member to our family too!

Today we officially welcome you to our brood, it’s been a long time coming!

The joy and happiness you bring to [Bride/Groom Name] is all we could ever ask for. Welcome to our family!

I have always wanted a [brother/sister] and now I have one in you. Thank you for making my [brother/sister] so happy!

You’ve felt like family since we met, but today it’s official! Sending all my love to you both.

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For a Son or Daughter

If your son or daughter is getting married, it’s likely that the wedding is just as important to you as the happy couple. And not just because you paid for it!

Chances are that if you’re the parent of the bride or groom, then your day will be full of emotions. You may also have been presented with an official opportunity to share how you feel that day by making a speech!

But if not, and you think the words might escape you just before you head down the aisle, use one of our messages below:

Since the day you were born all I have ever wanted is for you to be happy, and with [name] I can see that you are. Congratulations on your big day!

You are my soul purpose and joy in life. It fills me with insurmountable love to see you getting married to the love of your life.

I am so proud of you today and always. Congratulations to you both on your special day!

It warms my heart to know that you are so deeply loved and that someone else can see the amazing person you are. Happy wedding day!

I know I said everything to you on the day, and again in the speech. But just in case it’s not clear, I love you endlessly and am so proud of the woman/man you have become.

Every single day we are proud to be your parents, and your wedding day is no exception to that. Congratulations baby!

We always dreamed of the day when you would walk down the aisle to the partner of your dreams! We are so happy for you and wish you all the happiness in the world.

When words fail me, just know that today, tomorrow and always, I love you. Happy wedding day!

It seems like only yesterday we brought you home from the hospital, and today we’re walking you down the aisle. We can’t explain how happy we are for you both on this day!

There will never be enough words to help show how much we love you. Congratulations to you both on this exciting and beautiful day!

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For a Brother or Sister

If your brother or sister is tying the knot, then you’ll need a heartfelt message to help you say congratulations to them on their special day.

This is probably the biggest day of your life (until you give me a niece or nephew)! Congratulations you guys!

You’ve always used any excuse for a party! Happy wedding day!

I can’t think of a pair more suited to one another. Wishing you both all the love and happiness in the world on your special day.

I feel blessed that not only do I get to witness your love today, but every day after that. Congratulations!

Many congratulations as you marry the [man/woman] of your dreams. Wishing you a very happy marriage.

So excited for you both as you begin this new chapter in your life as a married couple.

My lovely [sister/brother] no one deserves this happiness more than you. So happy you have found eternal love.

Please don’t make your [husband/wife’s] life as difficult as you made mine growing up. Wishing you both all the best in your married life!

I know you will bring the same light and love to your new family as you have to ours. Love you endlessly my dear [brother/sister].

Wishing you all the love in the world on your special day, to someone who is not only my [brother/sister] but my best friend too.

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For a Best Friend

When the time comes for your best friend to journey down the aisle to marry the love of their life, it can sometimes be hard to find the words to say.

Of course you are happy for them, so happy in fact that you don’t know how to say how happy you are! But if you use one of our simple messages from below, your bestie is sure to feel the love on their big day:

We used to play dress up together and now we’re putting you in your actual wedding dress! So happy for you on your big day!

I feel beyond honoured to be included in your wedding day! You and [wife/husband’s name] both mean the world to me!

There’s nowhere I’d rather be than by your side on your wedding day! For now until forever, my bestie.

As you embark on your new journey together, never forget the love that brought you both together today. Congratulations!

Although you’re signing up to forever with [Name], don’t forget that I will always be here for you too.

Sending all my love to two of my best friends on their wedding day. Congrats!

We are so excited to revel in your love and be with you both on this special day. All of our love.

I know how much this day means to you both, which is why it is an honour to share it with you! Congratulations on your marriage and this beautiful day.

It has been a pure joy being with you both every step of the way. Wishing you both all the love and happiness you deserve.

May you both bring each other as much happiness as your friendship has brought to my life. Congratulations!

For a Colleague

It’s all they’ve been speaking about for months now, and the time has finally come for your colleague to marry their partner.

But whether there’s a card going around the office, or you’re the only one who bothered to get a gift, then you’ll need a wedding wish that’s perfect for a colleague:

From watching you plan this day on your lunch break, to being here with you to celebrate your big day. Congratulations to you both!

Feeling so grateful to be included in your special day! Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness!

It is so wonderful to see you be so happy and celebrate your love with your partner. Best wishes!

Can’t wait to see you when you’re back and hear all about your honeymoon! Congratulations to you and your new husband/wife!

I hope you remembered to put your out-of-office reply on!

Wishing you both a long and happy marriage full of laughter and love.

A beautiful day for a beautiful couple, congratulations to you both!

Warm wishes full of love to you both on your wedding day!

As you both come together today to celebrate your marriage, I’d like to thank you for inviting me to be a part of your special day.

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Conclusion

So whether it’s a loved one, lifelong friend or you’re just someone’s plus one - we’ve sorted you out with plenty of wedding wishes.

You’ll no longer have to worry about what to write in a wedding card, now your only worry should be what to wear!

Got a bestie, work buddy or family member who’s getting married soon? Create a group card or group collection with Givetastic to help say congratulations on their big day!